Wife’s Deer, Christmas Present, Memorial

Little FR

12 pointer
Nov 10, 2021
4,848
West Kentucky
This has been a long time in the works. Lot of years. Long story. If you don’t want to read it, skip to photos.

11 years ago or so a lovely lady and her daughter came to our church. The little girl was 6 or 7 and gave her heart to Christ at vacation Bible school. She was an adventurer, into hunting and fishing. She had watched a show on bears and was scared to go in the woods so I gave her a pocket knife. Yeah, I’m the guy that gives 6 year olds knives. The little girl drew me a thank you letter, it was a picture of her killing a bear with her bear knife.

They left the church due to moving further away. I married and life went on. I worked with the mother of my now wife and we all stayed in touch, platonically. I was divorced several years ago.

Last November, the little girl, now a young woman, passed away suddenly from a seizure, she hadn’t had one in years. I had kept the thank you letter on my desk at work all that time. I brought it to the funeral and presented it to her mother. She hugged me and cried, thanked me and told me that it was a comfort knowing she got saved at our church.

We started dating a few months later. We both had daughters the same age… we knew each other well, our family knew each other. We got married in July. We moved in together. It was always nagging that we couldn’t find the pocket knife.

During deer season this year we came across the knife, in a box of art projects, I cleaned it up, put an edge on it, like a razor. My wife had killed a doe but wanted a buck. She joked that we could skin a buck and retire the knife into her dresser drawer. Every hunt I slipped the knife into my wife’s coat pocket, she usually didn’t notice. I wanted her daughter to be a part of each hunt. Finally she bagged a buck. We went to skin it, I told her to check her coat, the knife was there, lots of tears followed. We skinned the buck.

For Christmas I got her deer skull mounted but wanted something special… this is what came out. The original knife mounted with ostrich hide, her first buck and the picture her daughter drew all those years ago, just got the frame to match put up today.

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CalebConn16

8 pointer
May 27, 2016
932
This has been a long time in the works. Lot of years. Long story. If you don’t want to read it, skip to photos.

11 years ago or so a lovely lady and her daughter came to our church. The little girl was 6 or 7 and gave her heart to Christ at vacation Bible school. She was an adventurer, into hunting and fishing. She had watched a show on bears and was scared to go in the woods so I gave her a pocket knife. Yeah, I’m the guy that gives 6 year olds knives. The little girl drew me a thank you letter, it was a picture of her killing a bear with her bear knife.

They left the church due to moving further away. I married and life went on. I worked with the mother of my now wife and we all stayed in touch, platonically. I was divorced several years ago.

Last November, the little girl, now a young woman, passed away suddenly from a seizure, she hadn’t had one in years. I had kept the thank you letter on my desk at work all that time. I brought it to the funeral and presented it to her mother. She hugged me and cried, thanked me and told me that it was a comfort knowing she got saved at our church.

We started dating a few months later. We both had daughters the same age… we knew each other well, our family knew each other. We got married in July. We moved in together. It was always nagging that we couldn’t find the pocket knife.

During deer season this year we came across the knife, in a box of art projects, I cleaned it up, put an edge on it, like a razor. My wife had killed a doe but wanted a buck. She joked that we could skin a buck and retire the knife into her dresser drawer. Every hunt I slipped the knife into my wife’s coat pocket, she usually didn’t notice. I wanted her daughter to be a part of each hunt. Finally she bagged a buck. We went to skin it, I told her to check her coat, the knife was there, lots of tears followed. We skinned the buck.

For Christmas I got her deer skull mounted but wanted something special… this is what came out. The original knife mounted with ostrich hide, her first buck and the picture her daughter drew all those years ago, just got the frame to match put up today.

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Precious gift dude! Couldn’t have done any better.
 

muddhunter

12 pointer
Oct 18, 2005
5,197
louisville
This has been a long time in the works. Lot of years. Long story. If you don’t want to read it, skip to photos.

11 years ago or so a lovely lady and her daughter came to our church. The little girl was 6 or 7 and gave her heart to Christ at vacation Bible school. She was an adventurer, into hunting and fishing. She had watched a show on bears and was scared to go in the woods so I gave her a pocket knife. Yeah, I’m the guy that gives 6 year olds knives. The little girl drew me a thank you letter, it was a picture of her killing a bear with her bear knife.

They left the church due to moving further away. I married and life went on. I worked with the mother of my now wife and we all stayed in touch, platonically. I was divorced several years ago.

Last November, the little girl, now a young woman, passed away suddenly from a seizure, she hadn’t had one in years. I had kept the thank you letter on my desk at work all that time. I brought it to the funeral and presented it to her mother. She hugged me and cried, thanked me and told me that it was a comfort knowing she got saved at our church.

We started dating a few months later. We both had daughters the same age… we knew each other well, our family knew each other. We got married in July. We moved in together. It was always nagging that we couldn’t find the pocket knife.

During deer season this year we came across the knife, in a box of art projects, I cleaned it up, put an edge on it, like a razor. My wife had killed a doe but wanted a buck. She joked that we could skin a buck and retire the knife into her dresser drawer. Every hunt I slipped the knife into my wife’s coat pocket, she usually didn’t notice. I wanted her daughter to be a part of each hunt. Finally she bagged a buck. We went to skin it, I told her to check her coat, the knife was there, lots of tears followed. We skinned the buck.

For Christmas I got her deer skull mounted but wanted something special… this is what came out. The original knife mounted with ostrich hide, her first buck and the picture her daughter drew all those years ago, just got the frame to match put up today.

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Well that’s pretty freaking awesome. Great story.
 

woodsman92

12 pointer
Feb 16, 2019
2,162
Russell Co
Great story and an awesome act of kindness, very neat mount also!

I will also say as I read the story and you said you gave the 6 year old a pocket knife I was not picturing that big gerber haha, I was expecting some little rough rider folding knife
 

Little FR

12 pointer
Nov 10, 2021
4,848
West Kentucky
Great story and an awesome act of kindness, very neat mount also!

I will also say as I read the story and you said you gave the 6 year old a pocket knife I was not picturing that big gerber haha, I was expecting some little rough rider folding knife
I found the exact knife this year, covered in dust on the back of a local archery shop shelf. I gave her sister the same knife for her tenth birthday. She has earned a bandaid or two since. It is probably too much knife for this 10 year old but you would have to have known the 6 year old. She was such an incredible person, outdoorsman and hunter.

I was shocked it was still around. Her mom was shocked i saved the little drawing, made me smile on bad days at work. When I heard she passed I locked the door, slumped over in my chair, turned the letter in my hands and wept.
 
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